So what the hell am I looking for?
if it hurts it hurts... doesn't matter if you're honest or kind.
i believe that honesty is the better choice. but we should always act with kindness when we are being honest.
sometimes we tend to make white lies in order to be kind. too much honesty is tantamount to being not kind at all especially so if the truth really hurts...
I take honesty because it has long term effects.
Be honest :) all the best
Engel: ay, nak-sentro talaga sa hurt? ;)Travis: as a girl-friend of mine said, "do they need to be mutually exclusive?" :)welcome to my blog! thanks for leaving a mcomment and following me. don't be a stranger, ok? :DClipped: uuuuuuuuuuy, long time! :DXian: so i take it's kindness over honesty? ;)Green: huwaw, mr. honest guy! :P
Caridad: honest ka ba sa pagiging haliparot? ;))
Ahhhhh... I see it has begun.Kane
be honest all the timeits the kindest thing you can do to others
Being the maldita, overbearing, and tyrannical teacher that you are, Ms. Minchin, you are brutally honest by default. The keyword is brutal. :))
Kandy Kane: napakanta tuloy ako ng "it's only justbegun" ni karen carpenter lolzEwan: honest naman ako sa pagiging dalisay, busilak, at mayumi ko a.ba't walang naniniwala??? ;))Spiral: tseeeeeeeeh :-LXian: teehee :P
to be honest with you, I think honesty is overrated. we've been dishing out "well-meaning" honest feedbacks, enough already. what we lack as a people, in our culture, is kindness. if it's a choice over the other, I will choose to be kind than to be honest... all the time.
ang bad mo teh! don't tell lies! dalisay?! mayumi?! san banda?! weehhh???? hehehe
please replace the word better with worse...
DSM: as the adage goes, it's not what you say, it's how you say it ;)Ewan: aw. maparatang ka't mapanghusga! :))Geek: how very pessimistic naman! :((
no, i am trying to see things at a different perspective.in this case, choosing which is the lesser evil.
Geek: :P @lesser evil
I believe that Lying is the best policy for now,so its better to be kind than to be honest.
Mark: ay, dissenter to popular opinion! :Psalamat sa pag-iwan ng comment at pag-follow! don't be a stranger :D
Honest na langHindi ako kind,ehHehe
Raft3r: will you be kind to me??? ;)