Thursday, May 5, 2011

Nang Magmuni-muni si Eternal Wanderer Ukol sa Pakikipagrelasyon



1. Pag-like mo yung tao, kada text at tawag sa yo e kinikilig ka. Kung hindi mo sya type, makukulitan ka lang at mabubwisit eventually.

2. Wala sa "sinong ang mas nagmamahal sa relationship?" ang usapan. Nasa "how do we make it work ?" ang labanan.

3. That said, I've always believed that a relationship is a constant work in progress.  Parang sex lang yan. Minsan sya ang nagtratrabaho, minsan ikaw. Pero ang importante e kailangan pareho kayo nagtratrabaho at it. Masarap ang 69, di ba? lolz

4. Pag-ayaw na, walang pilitan. Parang ang pangit naman that the person is staying with you out of pity and/or guilt. Or for that matter, you're still with the person for the same reasons.

5. When you're in a relationship, di ba dapat it brings out the best in you? Kapag hindi, you might want to think twice why you're even in it.

6. Corollary to that, relationships are just icing on the cake. It's the person who defines the cake, and not the icing itself. Bonus na lang ang mga palamuti, so to speak.

7. Be accepting of the person, faults and all. It comes with the whole package. If you don't like something, express it. But under no circumstances are you to be a control freak.

8. A relationship is like a tricycle. It's made up of three wheels: you, him/her and we.  The individual component is as important as the communal one. A little tip: spent as much me-time as we-time so that you grow as individuals as well as a couple.

9. Ika nga ni Rudeboy, assume makes and ass out of "u" and "me." I miss Ruddie. Maraming namamatay sa akala. Kung hindi sigurado, tanungin. Hindi ka si Madame Auring para hulaan yung kabiyak mo.

10. Setting expectations saves a lot of grief down the line. Mas buting nang maliwanag ang lahat kesa magkapaan kayo. Not unless iba ang kinakapa nyo sa isa't isa ;)

18 comments:

  1. Heeeer? At No. 9? Sure ka? Her talaga miss minchin?! ;))

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  2. Magaling-magaling, ikaw na ang kinapupulutan ng aral.

    At dahil dyan, feel ko ring magmuni-muni. :)

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  3. Wow! Si Miss Minchin ay love guru na ngayon. Naasan na ang pinagmamalaki mong eskwelahan ng mga alta? Lol

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  4. and when do you say 'it's over' teh ternie?

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  5. number 5,9 and 10 hit the bullseye sakin. kainis! kaimbyerna! ayoko rin taong mapride!

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  6. Ang gaganda! How insightful, Ternie :)

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  7. 69 FTW! hahaha. gagawin ko 'tong ala-checklist at ipapamudmod sa mga kaibigan para my guide sila as this sums up what i think of relationships too - bravo, eloquently said. :)

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  8. I totally agree with you! lalo na un number 7!ehehhe

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  9. Spiral: kay lami kaayo ang bilat ;))

    Madame Chuni: ang next post ko naman ay ukol sa sex advice. PAK! :))

    Mugen: tseeeeeeeeh :P

    Ewan: naku sa mga ganyan na situwasyon, usap ang kailangan para maliwanag. kung ayaw talaga makipagcommunicate, e di baboo ;)

    Rowell: naku, mahirap makipag pataasan ng ihi :P

    Kaloy: aw. i chenkyu. now ;))

    Mac: dabah? kung chaka ang ugali mo, ayusin mo muna sarili mo bago pumasok sa isang relasyon.

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  10. Hi Ternie, kamusta? So what prompted this? =)

    Kane

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  11. Kane: nakakalokah ka! kelangan ba lahat e may rason? :P

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  12. astig yun pantalon sa picture, ah
    sorry malayo sa blog post ang comment
    hehe

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  13. nasan ang pinaka powerful mong linya?

    Swallow lang kung may love involved!!!

    bakit nawawala?

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  14. Raft3r: amf. yung pantalong talaga ang napansin! :P

    Yj: hangbastuuuuuuuuuush!!! ;))

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  15. #6! one must have a strong sense of self to be in a relationship. but why did you erase your comment re '69'? ;-)

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  16. John: exactly. basing one's self on another person isn't exactly healthy, isn't it?

    and by the way, i erased it because i am dalisay, busilak, and mayumi.

    hihihi

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